Father's Day

If you know me at all, you know how much I love my Daddy.  He was my first hero and greatest champion.  All my friends loved him, too.  I was (usually) happy to 'share' him, and he was a wonderful father figure to many.

Kerry, Mama, Julie, Laura, Daddy (1973)

Growing up, Daddy found little ways to let me know he loved me and was thinking of me.  He always brought home a little gift or treat when he had been away.  Often it was a package of Trident gum.  I still smile when I see that gum.  He would let me 'drive' the car by sitting on his lap and steering the wheel.  I thought I was pretty big stuff doing that!  He would hitch up the pony cart and take me for a ride.  My third grade year we hosted the last day of school picnic and he took everyone for a ride in that pony cart!  When I was older and had moved away, he would send me letters of love and encouragement.  (I still have them all.)

Daddy and Laura - about 1978

Upon my graduation from NMSU (now Truman) - official barn painting!

Daddy (and Mama) taught us all to be aware of the needs of others and to strive to be of service.  I remember one instance when I was a little girl when Daddy stopped the car and let me get out to give a man on the side of the road the money I had in my pocket.  I say he 'let' me because that is how I remember it.  But at this point in my life I am well aware that he gently led me to make that decision and allowed me to own it.  A powerful example.  One of so many.  In later years, as he continued that tradition, he 'let' the grandkids go to Walmart and pick out several brand new bicycles that they were then able to deliver to a family who had lost everything in a fire.  I remember how proud the kids were walking out of the store with those shiny new bikes they had chosen and their excitement at being able to give them to kids about their same ages.  How do you raise children with a mindset of service and kindness and love?  My Daddy has always known how.  He has led by example and shared the true joy that comes from service in such a way that it becomes a part of his offspring.  What a gift we have been given.

Daddy with his grandkids - June 2003

I truly believe that having the kind of Daddy I have helped me to 'recognize' my dear husband, Marvin.  And what a blessing that recognition has been these last 25 years!  Marvin is my greatest love and life-long companion.  And he has been a wonderful Dad to our boys.

Jonathan, Marvin, and Jackson 

Jackson, Marvin, and Jonathan 

Jonathan, Jackson and Marvin 

Marvin's life has been filled with quiet, meaningful service to others.  From his service to his country on all our behalf, to his daily service to his family in the many things he does to take care of us and Willis Creek Ranch.  He is a humble man who is worthy of great praise.  I am so thankful for the life we have built and the impact he has had on my world and on our sons' lives.  I know from experience that that is a gift that will continue throughout their entire lives.

These two men in my life are an inspiration to me and to so many.  Each of them reflect the love of Christ and provide a powerful example of our loving and gracious heavenly Father.  Their witness throughout their lives has been impactful and life changing.  I am so very, very thankful for them.

The two finest men I know.  Marvin and Daddy.

Daddy, Jackson, Jonathan, Marvin

Everyone except James - Old Faithful Inn - June 2015.

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