What is soft and squishy you ask? Well, sadly, the answer is 'me'. :( I am afraid the last couple of months haven't been stellar for me regarding health and exercise. I blatantly and with malice in my heart ate lots of decadent food throughout the holidays. As I told Marvin, I truly MEANT
every single bite! Then the second week of January I had a medical procedure that was supposed to be 'easy recovery'. In all actuality, it truly WAS. But, for some reason I have had a few little issues that have kept me from bouncing back completely. Not enough to really warrant sympathy, just enough to be low functioning. :( Add in a couple minor bouts with a virus (again, not a big deal in the scheme of things) and I have let myself go. That formula that I know so well - that works like clockwork, 'eat less and exercise more'... well, I am finally back on it. :) This week I have felt strong again and have gotten back in the groove of exercising more. Now, I just need to get my food intake a little more regulated and I'll be set. I won't be soft and squishy for long!
Speaking of exercise... today on my walk I noticed the sap rising in some shrubby areas. That gives me such hope and joy! Plus, have you noticed how the light is different? Not only is it staying lighter longer, the light is somehow softer... more springlike. That, to me, is wonderful news!!
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I came home to find this...
Jackson and Marvin trying to change out a light bulb in the lights on top of the truck. I never really thought about that before, but those are a bit tricky to replace! :) Jackson was SO pleased that I captured these moments. :)
Then I found Jonathan outside working on one of his projects. He is creating a helmet for one of his costume ideas. I think we are all feeling the pull of spring - even if it IS only 40 degrees (with a stiff 18 mph wind!). Mind over matter?
Our family went to lunch together yesterday at a chinese buffet and I actually chose the right fortune cookie this time. :)

I have been alternating reading and listening to a book by Susan Cain called
Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking. Wow. This is an impressive book. I would highly recommend it to everyone to read! Now, I typically think of myself as an extrovert, although I have to say that as I get older I am finding that I have more introverted tendencies popping up. However, I am a mother to an introvert and am married to an introvert. I like to consider myself an appreciator of introverts. (don't we ALL like to consider positive things about ourselves?... whether they are true or not...) But this book is certainly helping me to have a deeper understanding of introverts and not only their strengths, but ways that I can really help (or hurt) them. Again, picturing my son during some of the chapters makes me cringe with the realization that I have attempted to 'help' him 'overcome' some 'issues' that aren't really issues at all... they are just him! The author makes a case that in the 1900's we, as a nation, changed from a 'Culture of Character' to a 'Culture of Personality'. That is a powerful argument and one that I will be ruminating over. I encourage you to check this book out of your library or simply purchase a copy.
Finally, there are lots of other things going on at the moment that give me great joy. They aren't quite blog-ready yet, but they are such hopeful, positive events that show me again the power of faith and family and timing. As my sister says, "How is it that we so quickly forget how God puts us in places and situations that bring such good - even when we don't see it coming? Why are we always surprised?" Cryptic, I realize... but just smile with me. All is well. :)